Remember the couple of posts I made not too long ago about one of my friend’s who were dating, and whose boyfriend ended up cheating on her?

Well not only did they break up yet again before Christmas, (after of course getting back together for the fifteenth time) but a DAY later he was listed as in a relationship on Facebook with another girl.

A day. A day. 

They had been together for almost two years and hes all of a sudden screwing someone else? So of course I hear all about it from his fifth time ex whose a wreck, we work on some damage control, pick up some pieces, she swears shes never getting back with him and now she wants revenge; her family hates him, she swears this time she knows how horrible he is and how he truly never cared about her etc etc etc.

Even I thought there had been some progress here for the first time! I thought she was dead set on not getting back with him and she was going to move on. 

I think the title is self explanatory of the so called ‘progress’ she made. 

Two days after her die hard decision to stay single for awhile I find out they’re talking again, despite him dating this new girl. Two weeks later I find out hes single and they’re sleeping together again.

Why. Why, Why?!

Cheating is such a vicious cycle and I hope anyone reading this can see that from her repetitive mistakes. We all know where this is going to go in a month or two and how all of us are going to wind up picking up the pieces yet again. Please, please, please for the love of buddah recognize that this is unhealthy and there is someone out there that will actually treat you like gold. I’m not saying every couple need be explicitly monogamous but there is a huge difference between cheating and having an open relationship, and unless theres some missed communication there I’d say this is the definition of cheating.